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When you think your marriage is over, give it one more year

Sex and Love editor — Tue, 14 May 2013 18:55:00 -0400

One of the questions I'm frequently asked is, "How do you know when it's time to give up on your marriage?"

If you’re considering divorce, I suggest first trying to make it work for at least one more year. Did you hear that?…

Teen 'MILF' Farrah Abraham's sex tape with James Deen (NSFW video)

Sex and Love editor — Sat, 11 May 2013 07:30:00 -0400

Farrah Abraham's celebrity career has been defined by a series of "mistakes" that pay well. After having unprotected sex, she landed a starring role on MTV's 16 & Pregnant and Teen Mom.…

James Deen, the cock star next door

Shawn Alff — Fri, 10 May 2013 04:00:00 -0400

To a growing group of female porn fans, James Deen has become an unlikely sex symbol, paralleling the iconic 1950s actor who inspired his moniker. Mainstream media has branded Deen the "Boy Next Door" of adult entertainment because he doesn't fit the outdated stereotypes of mustachioed performers like Ron Jeremy or muscle bound and ponytailed Fabio knockoffs.…

Ex wife new life: life is short, as may be your date

Amy Koko — Thu, 09 May 2013 10:24:00 -0400

Life is too short to drink bad wine or weak coffee, though I have no problem downing the occasional bag of stale Doritos. The point is, life is short.…

Sympathy for the deviant: Visiting my friend, the sex offender, in prison

Shawn Alff — Wed, 08 May 2013 11:14:00 -0400

It was my first time in prison. I was visiting an old friend, a convicted sex offender.…

Between the sheets: top 10 most provocative books out this month

Shawn Alff — Thu, 02 May 2013 10:08:00 -0400

Dian Hanson's History of Pin-up Magazines Vol. 1-3 (5/1/2013)
Edited by Dian Hanson

Publisher's Description: Everything you could ever want to know about the world history of men's magazines.…

A kinky fetish dictionary of taboo terms

Sex and Love editor — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 14:34:00 -0400

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Ablutophilia: A fetish for baths or showers that usually centers around a naked person lathering themselves up.

ABR: "Adult breast feeding."

Acomoclitic: A fetish for hairless genitals.…

Weird sex news: vibrating lube, bras make breasts sag, stripping for the dead, electric panties shock rapists, multiple MTV stars make sex tapes...

Sex and Love editor — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 12:01:00 -0400

NAKED AGGRESSION

Woman faces life in prison for tossing husband's penis in garbage disposal: Catherine Kieu faces felony charges after she allegedly severed her husband's penis with a knife then threw it in the garbage disposal. If found guilty, she could receive life in prison.…

Shaping beauty with lingerie mogul, Rhonda Shear

Shawn Alff — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 12:00:00 -0400

Rhonda Shear should be the spokesmodel for the ever-changing shape of beauty and success. She parleyed her skill-set as a sultry television actress, standup comic, and Playboy model into a career as the figurehead of the lingerie empire, Shear Enterprises.…

Study: sexually explicit material has a minimal impact on youth

Sex and Love editor — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 20:30:00 -0400

A new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine concludes that viewing sexually explicit material only has a minimal impact of the sexual behavior of adolescents. The findings suggest that the practice is just one of many factors that may influence the sexual behaviors of young people.…

25 years of Creative Loafing's 'Missed Connections'

Shawn Alff — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 10:12:00 -0400

Those who have glimpsed love and lost it often resort to desperate measures in the search for "the one who got away." They need a way to throw their "message in a bottle" into the void.…

Taking the U Touch Up Vibrator on a first date

Sex and Love editor — Wed, 17 Apr 2013 15:21:00 -0400

Dinner, drinks and a new luxury vibrator — Lauren was making out pretty good on our first date.

We had been drinking and joking about how fast some new daters move, ready to dive heart-first into a committed relationship.…

Preparing to party with Asian porn star, Mia Lelani

Shawn Alff — Tue, 16 Apr 2013 11:11:00 -0400

Mia Lelani is ready to party. When we met at the AEE Expo in Las Vegas, she was destroying a chicken sandwich and fries.…

Top 10 best condoms

Sex and Love editor — Mon, 15 Apr 2013 10:30:00 -0400

Each year Tampa's own CondomDepot.com publishes a list of the top 10 best condoms. This year the condom distributor sent out 40 of the top rated condoms and the best-selling condoms of 2012 to hundreds of "condom testers."…

Documentary on why men cheat, featuring Tampa (full video)

Shawn Alff — Fri, 12 Apr 2013 11:29:00 -0400

A new TV documentary explores why rich and powerful "alpha males" are willing to compromise their power, influence, marriages, and wealth for the most casual of sexual indiscretions.

Rich and powerful men have always had access to multiple sex partners.…

Perverting the comic voice behind Mindsploitation

Shawn Alff — Mon, 08 Apr 2013 11:30:00 -0400

Journalism blows. That's why I limit my "reporting" to Q-and-As, requiring the interview subjects to do all the work.…

Ex wife new life: a doctor in the house

Amy Koko — Fri, 05 Apr 2013 12:33:00 -0400

Divorced women know the story. You're doing ok, floating by on alimony, and learning to love Oscar Mayer bologna and Publix Spring Water.…

The Bachelor

Sex and Love editor — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 13:14:00 -0400

(Editor's note: "The Bachelor" is a work of literotica taken from the short story collection, Sex and Love, by I.J. Miller.)

Herm sits on the edge of his hotel bed. He stares at the yellow, crinkled scrap of paper in his left hand.…

Sex news of the weird

Sex and Love editor — Tue, 02 Apr 2013 11:51:00 -0400

Ex NFL cheerleader accused of propositioning a 12-year-old: Former cheerleader for the Tennessee Titans, Elizabeth Garner, 42, was charged with aggravated sexual battery after allegedly grabbing a 12-year-old boy's penis through his pants and attempting to perform oral sex on him. The married Garner is accused of following the boy to the bathroom during a party hosted by the boy's mother, grabbing his penis over his shorts, and attempting to remove them in order to perform oral sex.…

Between the sheets: top 10 most provocative books out this month

Shawn Alff — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:05:00 -0400

Best Sex Writing 2013: The State of Today's Sexual Culture (4/16/2013)
Edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Publisher's Description: Once again, Rachel Kramer Bussel has collected the year’s most challenging and provocative nonfiction articles on this endlessly evocative subject. The essays here comprise a detailed, direct survey of the contemporary American sexual landscape.…

The naked publicist, Tanya Tate

Shawn Alff — Thu, 28 Mar 2013 16:33:00 -0400

I bought the British bombshell Tanya Tate a Smirnoff Ice. This violated two of my most fundamental life-rules: 1.…

India Summer: a MILF for every season

Shawn Alff — Tue, 26 Mar 2013 11:31:00 -0400

In 2012, India Summer was named the MILF/Cougar of the year at the XRCO, XBIZ, and the AVN awards. To me this is a bit disturbing as she is only a few years older than me, and to my knowledge, neither of us has kids.…

Sex news of the weird

Sex and Love editor — Fri, 22 Mar 2013 09:36:00 -0400

Man live tweets about getting a vibrator dislodged from his ass: After accidentally losing a vibrator in his ass while pleasuring his prostate, @Grawly live tweeted about the experience of getting the vibrator dislodged in the ER room.
Jezebel.com

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Ex wife new life: treading on thin ice (part 2)

Amy Koko — Tue, 19 Mar 2013 11:14:00 -0400

In my last post I was preparing for a date-cation with a new man, and a new sport: snow skiing. My preparation was limited to a few lessons on an indoor ramp at Bill Jackson's and a pair of wool socks.…

Documentary about the debate over barebacking in gay porn (video SFW)

Sex and Love editor — Thu, 14 Mar 2013 12:41:00 -0400

Some estimates claim that as many as 60 percent of gay porn performers are HIV positive. Even if a law was passed requiring condoms in porn, production companies would shoot barebacking scenes in other countries, some performers would still choose to put themselves at risk, and consumers would still view such content.…