Sex Terms Glossary

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

What's the best lube for slipping in the backdoor?

Posted by on Tue, Oct 2, 2012 at 12:35 AM

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A reader emailed me with the below question, but it's one I get often from friends, followers, and fans:

Can you be specific what kinda lube you recommend to use for a first timer, to open the butthole easily? -C

The best kind of lube to use as a butt sex beginner depends on several things: whether you're going to be using toys or condoms, whether you'll be playing in water, and of course your own body and preferences.

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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

How to give orders like the goddess you are

Posted by on Tue, Aug 28, 2012 at 11:15 PM

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(Editor's note: This reader's letter has been edited for length)

I'm rather new to anything to do with the word Mistress. I've always sort of referred to myself as a gay man who likes to play with boobs trapped in the body of a woman, which could be easier to sum up if I just refer to myself as a switch. I'm always for experimenting and I refuse to ever feel ashamed about anything to do with sex since it has always felt like such a natural thing. At the same time I do still know when to ask for guidance. Recently I have begun to see a nice, albeit innocent, guy. Like most people I welcome to my bedroom, I inspired honesty in him. My boytoy (as I find myself calling him) confided in me that he enjoys dominant females.

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Thursday, June 21, 2012

Glossary of acronyms and abbreviations in personal ads

Posted by on Thu, Jun 21, 2012 at 10:42 AM

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The popularity of abbreviations and acronyms in personal ads developed as a byproduct of newspapers charging customers per letter. Even though personal ads have largely moved online to places like Craigslist and dating websites, these acronyms are still used as a kind of dater's language. Feel free to add suggestions or corrections in the comments section below.

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Friday, March 2, 2012

A great American trailer park epic

Posted by on Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 12:33 PM

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It’s a hard road for the first-time novelist.

First of all, you're confronted by a general lack of interest in fiction, unless you’re James Patterson or Stephen King.

Then there’s another Everest in your way: How do you get attention for your writing, unless you’re a serial killer, disgraced politician or a pregnant reality-show sleaze?

Tupelo Hassman
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Of course, there’s also talent.

That’s the route Tupelo Hassman is using.

You’ll be hearing a lot about her first novel, Girlchild (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, $24). Mostly, it’ll have to do with the strong voice of the narrator, a young trailer dweller named Rory Dawn Hendrix. She’s third generation poor, growing up around a truck-stop bar and among legions of mouthbreathers.

But, of course, she has a voice, and a view of the world shaped by the Girl Scouts Handbook. If I tell you she’s indomitable, then you might think this is some Disneyesque rags-to-riches story. It is not. But it is a story told in a unique voice, a voice of a young girl who tries to work through the agonies and the ecstasies of modern life among the have-nots. Rory is a child left behind.

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Thursday, March 1, 2012

Kinky Negotiations

Posted by on Thu, Mar 1, 2012 at 9:50 AM

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When first venturing into the bdsm scene you might be intimidated by the emphasis put on negotiation. This is very important when it comes to kinky sex; after all, if you're hoping to get tied up and beaten it's good to feel secure that your partner isn't going to do anything to you that you really don't want. But the thought of haggling like a lawyer with a prospective play partner is not exactly a turn on for most of us. Fortunately negotiation does not have to be a big deal, and most of us do not write painfully detailed "slave contracts" with our kinky lovers. (Some folks do; I suspect that they get a thrill out of the contract-writing itself.)

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Sunday, January 29, 2012

Quibbling over semantics in BDSM

Posted by on Sun, Jan 29, 2012 at 7:44 PM

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Whenever a group of people gets together for a common purpose they will develop a common lingo. As soon as that happens someone is sure to be discontented with the status quo and start agitating for change. The BDSM scene is no different.

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Saturday, December 17, 2011

Multiple types of orgasms

Posted by on Sat, Dec 17, 2011 at 6:00 AM

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  • Tanya Tate
I am multiply orgasmic. Most of you assume this means I'm capable of having orgasm after orgasm with no down time in between. This is true but I'm also multiply orgasmic in another sense: I have more than one type of orgasm. In fact, I have at least four different kinds of orgasms.

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Friday, October 21, 2011

Lust: A Dictionary for the Insatiable: It's lubricious

Use these in a sentence: cicisbeo, doxy, gynecomania, ithyphallic...

Posted by on Fri, Oct 21, 2011 at 10:03 AM

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As an unrefined logophile, I have an unnatural affinity for a well-endowed lexicon. Lust: A Dictionary for the Insatiable is not a cheap, urban dictionary filled with bawdry slang—one you might find hustling itself on the street corner in a frayed and waterlogged jacket for less than the price of a trashy tabloid. From Lust's fine cloth outerwear to its slender frame and prurient yet eloquent vernacular, this is one classy tome. What follows are 25 amatory words I discovered after slipping between the sheets of Lust.

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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Your butt sex questions answered

Posted by on Wed, Sep 28, 2011 at 6:13 PM

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Apparently I'm not the only one who's keen on anal sex! (Does this really surprise anyone?) The last post I wrote on the subject, "How to Train Your Anus," received a number of fantastic responses and some questions regarding anal sex. Below are my responses to a few.

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Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Dendrophiliacs really, really love trees (video)

Posted by on Tue, Aug 30, 2011 at 7:29 AM

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It turns out some dirty tree huggers are doing much more than just embracing the giant wooden penises growing in your backyard. Also known as arborphilia, dendrophilia denotes a love for trees. This only qualifies as a sexual fetish when the tree lover in question takes their relationship to the next level and derives sexual satisfaction from these leafy giants, whether that involves licking bark or some good old fashion tree humping. Dendrophilia can be considered a class of objectum sexuality, in which a person develops romantic desires for inanimate objects. Some Freudians believe this arousal may be because trees are giant, crooked phalluses, with infinite smaller penises branching off.

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