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Sex Terms Glossary
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Quibbling over semantics in BDSM
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Sun, Jan 29, 2012 at 7:44 PM
- Shannon Adams
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Multiple types of orgasms
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Sat, Dec 17, 2011 at 6:00 AM
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- Tanya Tate
Friday, October 21, 2011
Lust: A Dictionary for the Insatiable: It's lubricious
Use these in a sentence: cicisbeo, doxy, gynecomania, ithyphallic...
Posted by Shawn Alff on Fri, Oct 21, 2011 at 10:03 AM
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Your butt sex questions answered
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Wed, Sep 28, 2011 at 6:13 PM
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Dendrophiliacs really, really love trees (video)
Posted by Sex and Love editor on Tue, Aug 30, 2011 at 7:29 AM
Monday, July 18, 2011
'ManWords': redefining primal grunts and penis jokes
Posted by Shawn Alff on Mon, Jul 18, 2011 at 8:38 AM
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
How to train your anus
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Wed, May 18, 2011 at 8:30 AM
The first rule of anal play is lube, lube, and more lube. Rectums do not produce their own lubricant the way vaginas do, so if you're going to be sticking anything up your bum you need to grease it up first. Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to lube. For anal play many folks (myself included) prefer lubes which are thicker and have more 'staying power.' You also need to be careful that whatever lube you choose plays well with others. Oil-based products (such as vaseline, hand lotions, and many others) will damage latex items like rubber butt plugs and - most importantly - condoms*. Silicone lubricants can instantly bond to and ruin your beautiful silicone dildos.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Erotic humiliation play: When you want the names to hurt
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Thu, May 5, 2011 at 8:49 AM
We know that some people are delighted by bodily sensations others would avoid, such as jumping from an airplane or being beaten with a bullwhip. So it should come as no surprise that some folks get an erotic thrill out of the sorts of feelings others would avoid: things like embarrassment, jealousy, shame, and fear. This truth is at the core of erotic humiliation play.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
My baby's got me in chains... and other alternatives to rope bondage
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Tue, Mar 22, 2011 at 6:22 AM
I appreciate the look of intricate rope bondage but not really enough to have (so far) applied myself to learning how to do it. I know the basics and that's enough. Knowing my personality I think it's possible that my disinterest in rope bondage has much to do with it's massive popularity in the BDSM scene right now. Anything that's so much of a trend loses some appeal for me.
But fortunately there are other bondage materials available. For instance, I am fairly skilled in the use of silk scarves and saris for bondage purposes. I adore using silks for a number of reasons. For one thing, scarves are so lovely and colorful - a subbie tied up in silk can be such a pretty sight! And oh, the feeling of silk sliding across skin...it is a fetish all by itself. Seriously, I remember sticking my bare arms into the racks of silk shirts at the mall back before I was old enough to understand what a "fetish" was, just to enjoy that lovely slippery-warm feeling. And I will still take silk over leather, on myself or my submissive, any day.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Bringing out his inner slut with forced feminization
Posted by Mistress Erisiana Cherie on Wed, Feb 9, 2011 at 9:25 AM
As a professional dominatrix and pornmaker I specialize in "forced feminization." This fetish is all about transforming men into submissive slavegirls.
Now before we go any further let me make it crystal clear that this is not the only kinky activity I'm into. In fact, I find it quite annoying when people assume that I want to feminize every male I meet. Sometimes I even get bored with sissies and deliberately look for other kinds of play!
