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Friday, February 10, 2012

The dick lit laureate: Tucker Max gets interviewed about Sloppy Seconds, Hilarity Ensues

Posted by Shawn Alff on Fri, Feb 10, 2012 at 11:14 AM

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In 2000, Tucker Max put a "date application" online to settle a bet. He won the bet and bragging rights by sleeping with one of his date applicants — a woman he also encouraged to jump out of his bedroom window naked so his friends would not see how fat she was. After graduating from Duke Law School, Max and his buddies passed the tedium of their jobs by swapping emails about their drunken exploits. Max realized that being a lawyer sucks, while getting drunk and having absurd amounts of casual sex with amputees, midgets and strippers is awesome.

He quit his job and devoted himself to getting his stories published. In 2003, a lawsuit by a former Miss Vermont over a story Max wrote provided the mainstream publicity needed to publish his first collection of stories, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell. This book became a number one bestseller and spawned a literary genre: fratire.

Max's work reads like bar stories stripped of any literary flourishes — humorous tales of hooking up, drinking to excess, and disregarding consequences. For many critics, Max is a literary Neanderthal. But, like so many rebel writers before him, he was the first person to tap into a market and an attitude younger readers craved. I caught up with Max during the launch of his final book of fratire, Hilarity Ensues, as well as the release of Sloppy Seconds: The Tucker Max Leftovers, which is available for free online.

The catch-22 of being famous is that women actively want to have sex with you, but you also attract fame whores who want to have your children. Considering that you have a law degree, do you think it is possible to have a potential fuck buddy sign a legally binding document freeing you from any financial—

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Thursday, February 9, 2012

Why women are cheating just like men

Posted by Single White Female on Thu, Feb 9, 2012 at 8:35 AM

Leann Rimes is the patron saint of female cheaters
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In the spirit of role reversal, it seems that women have emerged as "manizers." We are using men for sex while our boy toys mistakenly think they are going to steal us away from our husbands and boyfriends. This is not necessarily something to be proud of, but it does represent progress in the sense that women are becoming the equals of men, not only in the business world, but also in the relationship realm. Besides, if we are making more money and taking care of our male counterparts, why shouldn’t we also be the partner who takes advantage of our elevated status by cheating with men who are attracted to our money and power?

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Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Pastor, and husband, Bobby Triplett on Valentine's Day

Posted by Shawn Alff on Wed, Feb 8, 2012 at 12:58 PM

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As the pastor at Element Church in Tampa, Bobby Triplett performs over 30 weddings a year. He also counsels married couples who are dealing with difficult times in their relationships. As a religious leader and husband, Triplett offers a unique perspective on Valentine's Day.

How popular is February 14 and the week surrounding the holiday in terms of the number of weddings you are asked to perform?

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Tuesday, February 7, 2012

A Valentine's Day hot spot: The Cupcake Spot

Posted by Shawn Alff on Tue, Feb 7, 2012 at 7:21 AM

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Cupcakes have become the confectionery of choice. Instead of Dunkin' Donuts, one day soon there may be cupcake shops on every corner selling coffee. To see what it is like working in a cupcake store on a holiday that revolves around the exchanging of sugary treats, I contacted the most popular cupcake maker in Tampa Bay. Nicole Longo is the owner of The Cupcake Spot stores in Tampa and St. Pete. This will be her fifth Valentine's Day.

How important is Valentine's Day for your business?

It’s the single most important day.

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Monday, February 6, 2012

Merchant of romance: running a flower shop on Valentine's Day

Posted by Shawn Alff on Mon, Feb 6, 2012 at 11:57 AM

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Flowers have become a staple of romance, possible because their sole function is to convey beauty and affection. Long stem roses in particular have become a cultural metaphor for love. As as result, few if any businesses are more impacted by Valentine's Day than florists. To get an idea of just what it is like being one of the foremost merchants of romance on February 14, I sat down with Shelley Vanderhorst, who has owned and operated Green Bench Flowers in downtown St. Petersburg for sixteen years.

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Business coach, Caird Urquhart, on how to rally after a breakup

Posted by Shawn Alff on Mon, Feb 6, 2012 at 8:57 AM

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Caird Urquhart is the author of 30 Ways to Better Days: How to Rally After You’ve Been Dumped. Below is my interview with the business and relationship coach on the nature of relationships, if casual sex is ever part of the healing process, and why having a gay friend is essential for many women who are trying to get over an ex.

As a business coach, how similar is your advice for getting over a breakup compared to dealing with getting fired or experiencing a major business setback? While many relationship coaches suggest grieving over a broken relationship, do business coaches ever suggest grieving over a lost job?

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Friday, February 3, 2012

Sugar... mama?

Posted by Single White Female on Fri, Feb 3, 2012 at 5:56 AM

Ann Heche playing Ashton Kutchers Sugar Mama in Spread
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There is no denying the facts ladies; we are simply becoming better at life than men. We are making more money, we are dominating more powerful positions, and we are more educated than our lackadaisical counterparts. Why then, aren’t men showing us the respect we deserve?

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Thursday, February 2, 2012

Planned Parenthood supporters rally in Tampa

Posted by Mitch Perry on Thu, Feb 2, 2012 at 2:27 PM

Harry Cohen, John Dingfelder, CJo Ford, Yolie Capin & Lisa Montelione at the Planned Parenthood Luncheon in Tampa
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As the controversy continues over the decision by the Susan G. Komen For the Cure foundation to cut its support for Planned Parenthood, the Tampa Bay area's leading Planned Parenthood chapter held its annual fundraising luncheon in Tampa on Thursday and raised over $10,000 as a direct rebuke to Komen's decision.

Planned Parenthood has used the approximately $600,000 annual contribution from Komen, the world's leading breast-cancer research advocacy group, to pay for breast-screenings exam for poor women. Komen's decision to cut funding from PP has angered the pro-choice community, including some who have financially supported both groups.

Former Tampa City Councilwoman Linda Saul-Sena said she has never given that much funding to Susan G. Komen, but now says she won't give anymore. "I was profoundly disappointed. I thought it was off base," she said of the controversial decision.

The Foundation based its decision on a new rule that prohibits funding of any group under formal investigation by a government body. Ocala-area Republican Congressman Cliff Stearns has opened a federal inquiry into Planned Parenthood, saying he is trying to learn whether the group used federal funds to provide abortions.

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Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Planned Parenthood reacts to defunding by Susan G. Komen

Posted by Mitch Perry on Wed, Feb 1, 2012 at 6:07 PM

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The news that the Susan G. Komen for a Cure Foundation, America's largest charity to fight breast cancer, will no longer fund Planned Parenthood's free and low-cost breast cancer screenings for millions of women is being met with outrage by pro-choice advocates across the country.

The foundation has cited an investigation into Planned Parenthood by Florida Republican Representative Cliff Stearns as the reason for pulling nearly $1,000,000 in funding for breast cancer screenings. Komen says the organization's new rules cut off grants to any group being investigated by authorities at the local, state or federal level. Stearns began his inquiry last fall to determine whether Planned Parenthood uses federal money to fund abortions, which it is forbidden to do.

Barbara A. Zdravecky, president/CEO of Planned Parenthood of Southwest and Central Florida, says she's saddened that politics have gotten in the way of women's health care. Planned Parenthood says more than 90 percent of its health care is preventative, including breast cancer screenings, birth control, and prevention sexually transmitted diseases.

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Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Shopping for romance in an adult superstore: Valentine's Day at The Todd

Top items: Red lingerie, fetish toys and "anything that vibrates."

Posted by Shawn Alff on Tue, Jan 31, 2012 at 6:36 PM

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While researching how Valentine's Day impacts local businesses, only one couples' superstore came to mind: The Todd—the perennial winner of CL's Best of the Bay Readers' Choice award for "Best Sex Shop." I caught up with general manager Shayne Arnone while he prepared for the store's real holiday season.

How important is Valentine’s Day for The Todd?

It is probably the biggest shopping spike we hit all year. Way above Christmas. The only thing that even contends with it is the weekend of Halloween. We do well on costumes. But, overall, Valentine’s is the biggest for us.

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