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Thursday, May 26, 2011

The Modern Virgin: Parking lot pickups and bootylicious sexting

Posted by The Modern Virgin on Thu, May 26, 2011 at 10:41 AM

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When considering where I might meet the man who will eventually take my virginity, the tradition pickup spots come to mind: bars, clubs and coffee shops. However, in keeping with my untraditional love life I got a very nice surprise when I was recently picked up in a parking lot by a sexy black man. While walking to my car in a very tight black dress, a guy named Ken introduced himself. He was about 6 feet tall and huge. I was definitely intrigued.

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Tuesday, April 12, 2011

The Thinking Dog Blog: Does your dog have sore paws? Help is available

Posted by Pam Hogle on Tue, Apr 12, 2011 at 10:43 PM

I recently noticed that Jana was limping. She was favoring her left front paw. She wasn’t limping all the time, but it was definitely worse in the evenings and after play sessions.

I took her to see her chiropractor, Dr. Patricia Jamison. Dr. Jamison has a long relationship with Jana and has also helped Oriel with pain and structural problems. But, after a couple of pretty serious adjustments, Jana was still sore. On Dr. Jamison’s advice, I called Dr. Callum Hay at Veterinary Surgical Services.

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Dr. Jamison assured me that Dr. Hay was the best in the area for diagnosing soft tissue and limb problems, and that he’s truly devoted to the dogs (and cats) and “not in it for the money.” His office, on Paula Drive in Tampa, is not fancy, and, she assured me, the cost would be reasonable.

If anything, she understated things.

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Sunday, March 20, 2011

The Thinking Dog Blog: Area canines offer a helping paw

Posted by Pam Hogle on Sun, Mar 20, 2011 at 8:29 AM

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Several months ago, I wrote about our retired guide dog, a golden retriever named Oriel. Like many retirees, she’s got extra time on her paws and wants to do some volunteer work. So, we recently took the test to become Delta Pet Partners.

A newly minted Registered Pet Partner team, Ory and I started checking into area opportunities. First, we looked at programs that help out kids in the Tampa Bay area.

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Sunday, March 6, 2011

The Thinking Dog Blog: Shell Key Shuttle offers a sunset cruise for canines

Posted by Pam Hogle on Sun, Mar 6, 2011 at 11:33 AM

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Imagine sailing through smooth waters, watching seabirds fly in to roost on a small island, gliding peacefully into a spectacular sunset as you sip a cold beer. Imagine doing all of that with your best friend at your side. Your best dog friend, of course.

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Sunday, February 27, 2011

Mitch Daniels, Chris Christie and Mike Huckabee talk about 2012 politics (video)

Posted by Mitch Perry on Sun, Feb 27, 2011 at 3:00 PM

Republican Governors are all the rage in national politics these days, and some of them are being seriously discussed as contenders for President next year.

On Sunday morning, a plethora of such leaders, like Chris Christie, Mitch Daniels, Scott Walker, Haley Barbour and our own Rick Scott took to the national airwaves, many of them in Washington D.C. for the National Governors Association Winter Meetings.

Let's begin first with Indiana's Mitch Daniels, formerly the OMB Director under George W. Bush, who is seriously turning on conservative policy wonks with his accomplishments in the Hoosier state.  With a void amongst the alleged front-runners for the 2012 nomination, more and more people are talking up Daniels, and his insistence on not pushing the social issues does seem to make him a potential serious contender who might be able to get independent votes.

Despite all of the publicity around Wisconsin Governor Scott Walker's attempt to take away some collective bargaining rights for public employees, it's only been noted this week that Daniels, dubbed the new "it-boy" of American politics by Fox News Sunday's Chris Wallace did the same thing in Indiana years ago, and was asked about that on Sunday:

WALLACE: All right. You took away -- what is going on in Wisconsin now, you took away public workers' collective bargaining rights by executive order six years ago the day after you were sworn into office, but now you are calling their unions the privileged elite. Question, teachers, public safety officers -- the privileged elite?

DANIELS: Across America, Chris, we've had a huge inversion. There may have been a time, a century ago, where public employees were mistreated and vulnerable and underpaid. If that was ever a problem, we have over-fixed it. Not everywhere but in many places.

As you know very well, public employees in America -- most decidedly federal employees, but everywhere -- are better paid than the taxpayers that pay their salaries. When you add much more generous benefits and much more generous pensions on top, the gap widens, and then there is near total job security in the last recession.

WALLACE: But you really would call teachers, I mean, they're public servants, you said they are public servants. Would you really call teachers a privileged elite?

DANIELS: I was really talking about the government unions, of whom their union, of course, is one. Now, it is true that teachers are paid in Indiana 22 percent more than the taxpayers who pay their salary. The benefits raise that further, that is all true.

I happen to think that is a good idea. We have some of the best paid teachers in America, and I think that is absolutely fine. In fact, one of the bills our Democrats want us to kill would allow us to pay the best teachers more, which is something I'd really like to do.

But as a general phenomenon, we have a situation in which public sector unions get gillions of dollars in dues, which they hand back to the politicians who then sweeten the pot for them in an unending circle, and that's a bad idea.

What makes Daniels interesting is that he speaks the truth on certain issues, even though he doesn't have all the answers. For example, over the past couple of years of studying the American health care system, its obvious that one of the most expensive parts of it is that we spend so much money for people on their (literal) last legs of their life, an extraordinary amount that we simply must begin to address, especially as the country collectively gets older.

We all remember Sarah Palin's "death panels," but the fact is that evaluating end of life issues is something that needs to be addressed, for the status quo is unsustainable. Daniels struggled with this on Sunday, but didn't run away from talking about it:

WALLACE: You even say the government should put limits on end- of-life care. Are you talking about what Sarah Palin called the death panels?

DANIELS: No, I didn't say government should put limits on this, but what I'm worried about is the government making these decisions. I just stated what I think is a simple fact. I wish it wasn't, but I think it is. We cannot afford in an aging society to pay for the most expensive technology every -- for every single person regardless of income to the very, very last day.

WALLACE: Who makes that decision?

DANIELS: I think it has -- at least a part of it has to be the family and the patient himself or herself. I mean there --

(CROSSTALK)

WALLACE: Does the government at some point say we can't afford to give the 92-year-old the liver transplant?

DANIELS: Chris, I've told you, I think with some specificity, what I think ought to happen in Social Security and Medicare. I just answered the question honestly. I think this problem will have to be addressed. I don't pretend to have an exact answer to this one, except that autopilot won't work.

WALLACE: Do you think voters are ready? I mean, you talked about some things that seem to be sort of political taboos. Do you think voters are ready for such strong medicine?

DANIELS: I can't tell you that for sure, but I have a little -- more confidence maybe in the American citizenry than some.

DANIELS: Some in politics today.

I -- I do believe that people are ready to step up, that once they have the real facts -- many of these facts that you may know are -- have not been shared, honestly, with the American people, and I give -- I give a little more credit than I think some of our politicians do.

One issue that could hurt Daniels with the Tea Partiers and others who care about cutting spending is the fact that on his watch as Bush's OMB Director, federal spending went through the roof.  Daniels' answer here wasn't so compelling, since he didn't give a good reason why the country needed Bush's massive tax cuts in 2001 and 2003 that helped create some of the large debt we have today.

Meanwhile over on CBS' Face The Nation, host Bob Schieffer had the cover boy of Sunday's New York Times magazine, New Jersey's hulking Chris Christie, on for much of the half hour program.  Christie isn't running for office in 2012 - yet- but he didn't mind giving advise to other potential candidates about how they should conduct themselves in the arena.

"No, you can’t finesse it and you have to have unscripted moments. You cannot be blow-dried and, you know, poll-tested and come out here. That’s not what the American people want. They want somebody who is going to speak straight to them. And, they want to ask you questions and they want unguarded moments. That’s when they can really judge your character.”

The "Face" host then asked if his comments were directly towards Sarah Palin.  Watch:

Meanwhile, speaking of potential GOP presidential candidates, former Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee continues to draw impressive numbers in polls assessing the 2012 field.  Back on Fox News (where he's expanded his reach with a weekend program over the past few years), Huckabee responded to a question about running in 2012 by getting at something that obviously is a concern to him if he were to run: could he afford what is expected to be a several hundred million dollar contest to seriously challenge Barack Obama's prodigious war chest.

WALLACE: Let's face it, obviously you're promoting a book and being a potential candidate is good for business in that sense. But here's the serious question, which I think relating to all this -- don't the American people deserve a candidate who believes with all of his or her heart that they are the best person for the job?

HUCKABEE: Absolutely. And one of the reasons that I have not yet made that decision is because I'm working through that process. I think I would be an excellent president and a good candidate.

But what I want to know is do I think I can carry it to the finish line? Can I raise the level of money, an obscene amount of money that's going to be necessary to win the primary, and then to challenge an incoming president who's going to have a billion dollars piled up just waiting on somebody to come after him?

Huckabee, like some other Republicans, is apoplectic about Obama telling his Justice Department to no longer defend the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, which he had been, even though concurrently he was arguing to get rid of "don't ask, don't tell," in the military, infuriating gay rights activists.  Now the President has stirred up the right wing with this issue, and Huckabee is predicting that Obama will lose support with his most loyal supporters, black Democrats.

ALLACE: This week the president decided, decided that the Defense of Marriage Act, which bars federal recognition of same-sex marriage, is unconstitutional, and he directed the Justice Department to no longer defend DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act, in court. You say that that could destroy the president. Isn't that over the top?

HUCKABEE: No. I'll tell you why. Maybe that's a hyperbole, but heck politicians are given a little hyperbole, as are talk show hosts. But here's what I mean by that. First of all, he alienated the African-American community. Overwhelmingly African-Americans support traditional marriages, more than Hispanics and more than whites. In the white community, it's about 56 percent, 65 in the Hispanic, 75 in the African-American community.

You have African-American church leaders like Anthony Evans coming out saying of the 34,000 churches that he networks with, they are in arms about this. But secondly...

WALLACE: But if he believes that it's unconstitutional, I mean you would say give an honest answer.

HUCKABEE: Well, let's take a look at that. He said because some lower court decided that a part of DOMA was unconstitutional that he would not enforce it. OK. By that logic, he should not try to implement Obamacare, because some lower courts have already decided that it's unconstitutional.

That's hypocritical. It's hypocritical and it's dishonest, because when he ran for president, Chris, he said he supported traditional marriage. He's on the record. Now, the question is was he dishonest then? Is he dishonest now? Or did he change his view, and if he did when and why?

WALLACE: If he did change his view, is that legitimate?

HUCKABEE: He better explain why because that's not why he got elected. And here's another thing I think he's got to explain. Why is it that on one hand, he has been saying that if this issue is addressed, it should be addressed legislatively, and now he's doing it not legislatively, not even judicially?

Judicially, it would go to the Supreme Court. He's doing it administratively. I don't think that what he's doing is constitutional. If a president begins to decide which pieces of the law he's going to choose to support or endorse or enforce based on a lower court decision, not because it's actually bubbled up to a final adjudication -- that is an unusual precedent for a president to take.

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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

New York Magazine loves St. Pete: Travel story sings area's praises

Posted by David Warner on Wed, Feb 23, 2011 at 1:03 PM

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It's been a pretty terrible week for St. Petersburg, with the murder of another police officer attracting unwelcome national attention and leaving residents wondering what's going on with their town. So it's at least a small comfort that the things we usually boast about — the culture, the restaurants, the weather — can still get us some good publicity.

Case in point: New York Magazine's travel site, in its Five-Point Weekend Escape Plan, devotes six pages to St. Pete in a feature titled "Soak in Sun and  Culture in St. Petersburg." The intro limns the city's charms in language that could have been dreamed up by the St. Pete tourist bureau: "Fashionably renovated hotels, gleaming new art museums, and a resurgence of music have given this formerly senior-dominated Florida destination an increasingly youthful edge."

Among the attractions singled out in St. Pete and environs were the usual suspects,

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Friday, February 18, 2011

Ask Dream Momma: The Stairmaster from hell

Posted by Dream Momma on Fri, Feb 18, 2011 at 3:18 PM

“Dear Dream Momma, in my dream I am on the Stairmaster working out. I have my water bottle and drink from it. That’s it. That’s the dream.

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The reason I’m writing you is because this dream keeps coming back and on some nights I have it over and over again. My boyfriend says I’m very active while I’m sleeping and wake him up a lot. This annoying dream is starting to get on both our nerves and neither of us is getting much sleep these days. Can you help us?”

Yes.  The key symbol in your dream is the water bottle and what you do with it.  Duh! Anyway, you drink from it while the Stairmaster drains you. It’s almost as if you’re a sieve. Water goes in, sweat comes out. Nowhere in the dream do you do anything else. Your only action is drinking water or, more symbolically, trying to nourish yourself. You never get anywhere on the Stairmaster and most importantly; your thirst never gets slacked.  This is not good.

Now at your age (sleeping with a boyfriend and not married so 20-30ish) you are in the grip of two huge developmental tasks. One is securing a profession and the other is finding a life partner.  The question you need to ask yourself is have you made any progress in either of those vital tasks?  The dream is telling you “no.”  It’s telling you you are climbing but not getting anywhere and your are drinking but are still thirsty. This is not good. You need to pay attention to that like NOW.

Here’s a small therapeutic task that will help you. The next time you have that dream write it down and then write is differently. For example, write a story of you getting off the Stairmaster, finishing the water, and submersing yourself in a wonderful temperature-perfect hot tub.  Write another story about you getting off the Stairmaster, drinking all the water, and meeting your boyfriend so he can give you a massage. You get the idea. Good luck and let me know what happens.

Dream Momma

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Saturday, February 5, 2011

Calling all dog lovers! Gulfport's Get Rescued fair and Humane Society's Mutt Strut

Posted by Pam Hogle on Sat, Feb 5, 2011 at 4:16 PM

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Two upcoming events give Pinellas County dog lovers the chance to put their money where their hearts are — and have a great time doing so.

On February 26, head to Gulfport for the seventh annual Get Rescued event. An all-day fair is followed by a festive, fun evening.

Bring your furry friends along to the free Get Rescued fair, which lines Beach Boulevard in Gulfport from 10 a.m. until 5 p.m. Rescue organizations will be out in full force, with adoptable pets and all sorts of toys, accessories, and treats for our favorite family members. Enjoy pet-themed booths and activities, music, crafts and snacks. Don’t forget your donation of dog or cat food or kitty litter for the benefit of the dozens of rescue organizations and shelters that participate.

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After the four-legged friends have gone to bed, head back to the Gulfport Casino for a fun evening of dancing to live music, free hors d’oeuvres and cash bar. Tickets are $20. Drawings throughout the evening, as well as live and silent auctions, offer plenty of chances to support the 12 participating rescue groups and to bid for travel, hotel stays, art, wine and food, pet accessories, restaurant gift certificates and much more.

For information or to participate, contact  rescuedngulfport@aol.com.

If you’re already booked on Feb. 26, hold March 19 open for the 19th annual Humane Society of Pinellas Mutt Strut. Mascot Duncan will lead the mile-long strut at “noon on the nose,” along the Osprey trail, according to the Humane Society. The event runs from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m. at Honeymoon Island State Park. Enjoy pet-themed booths, vendors, games and contests — and join hundreds of other participants, both human and canine, to raise money for homeless pets. The first 300 walkers who donate at least $25 will receive a Wag Bag of goodies, an event T-shirt and a doggy bandanna. Visit the Humane Society website to register or for more information.

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Monday, January 31, 2011

Walking the dog: Consider what's in it for you and your pet

Posted by Pam Hogle on Mon, Jan 31, 2011 at 8:26 AM

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Why do you walk your dog?

That’s not really a silly question. Most dogs love walks. And, from the human’s point of view, there are many reasons to take a dog for walks.

Some walks are simply toilet breaks for the dog. Short and necessary, there is no time for sniffing around.

Some walks are a chore, sandwiched in with or combined with other chores. The walker might be multitasking: pushing a stroller, talking on a cell phone, and shepherding a child to school in the morning. There is simply not time to pay attention to the dog as well, but at least he’s getting out.

Still other walks are meant for exercise for dog, owner, or both. On these walks, the owner might want to keep up a fast walking pace and might grow impatient with a dog who stops to sniff bushes, trees, flowers, blades of grass …

But what’s wrong with these scenarios is, they disregard the dog’s perspective.

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Friday, January 28, 2011

Ask Dream Momma: helpless at work

Posted by Dream Momma on Fri, Jan 28, 2011 at 8:32 AM

“Dear Dream Momma, I had this upsetting dream last night. I dreamed I was standing on the deck of the cruise ship. The wind was blowing....  

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there was a slight chop in the water. Then I turned around to the left and saw tons of surfers out in the ocean. But the weird thing was that they were surfing INTO the waves. From the shore to the sea... and as the waves crested, the surfers where flung in the air back towards shore... I stood and watched helplessly. I wanted to shout at them to stop doing that. To turn around and surf in the right direction.... I tried to yell but the wind drowned out my words....

Moral of the story or what I think this dream means... is that no one listens to me, and I wish I was on vacation on a cruise ship to go surf. What do you think?”

Right now Dream Momma is thinking of is Sisyphus. He was a king, currently a mythic, symbolic character, who was punished for his pride by having to eternally push a boulder up hill only to watch helplessly as it tumbled back down. In today’s modern work world (which you clearly allude to in your dream and comments) she is also thinking of the Sisyphusian condition; research conclusions by Dr. Dan Ariely that revealed people work harder when their work is more meaningful.

So Dear Dreamer, what has this got to do with you?  Shall we speculate? Whatever it is, it clearly has to do with work. You are on a cruise ship (a symbol of luxury); the slight chop in the water could mean the small challenges of your job.  In your dream you notice the wind. It is powerful ... powerful enough to drown out your words. Hmmm? Who is the windbag in your workplace? The person that controls you? My guess is that you are mid-management trapped between worker bees (the surfers) that waste time and effort at work (bet they surf the net a lot.) and an overpowering boss.

Under those conditions Dream Momma would want to escape too. But wait! You can escape. You can escape your over-developed sense of responsibility and need to control (“turn around and surf in the right direction.”). Believe me, Dear Dreamer, once you overcome that challenge your whole life will feel like a luxury cruise. Good news; the dream is telling you it’s time for that internal shift and the fact that you wrote me tells me you’re ready. Go for it.

Dream Momma

Want to learn from your dream? E-mail Dream Momma at dreammomma@gmail.com

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