Dream Momma says the short answer is to get another girlfriend because she is definitely out of there. Your unconscious knows it so it’s time to get a clue. The deeper answer is you’re stressing yourself out not because your girlfriend is hot, it’s because you think you own her (“…protecting what’s mine.”) Wtf? Enough said.
Now here’s the long answer. Your dream is meant to be a wake-up call. Your unconscious wants you to learn more about yourself. It’s telling you that you can’t control anything but yourself and once you try your life goes out of control (car going over the cliff). Now there may be an unconscious part of you that wants to be Keith Richards but in reality, you’re not. Dream Momma gets the impression you’re just a guy in over his head and feels badly for you. There are lots of guys like you. I call them the Icarus crowd. The guys that eventually fly too close to the sun fueled by a modern fantasy spoon-fed by the media and mad men to become inauthentic. Now that is the true stress of the modern man. His ability to bullshit himself and tragically believe it.
Here’s what you need to do. Ditch the girl, get into some type of non-competitive wilderness adventure (Outward Bound for example) and start testing your true limits. Find a decent therapist or men’s group to begin to understand who you truly are, not who you think you are or fantasize about being. Trust me when I say girls love the authentic man. Don’t believe me? Read “Oriah Mountain Dreamer.” Good luck.
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