I describe myself as a heterosexual woman with bisexual tendencies. I've been called a pillow princess and passively bi, but neither description is accurate. I'm just picky. I'm attracted to a particular look and touch. Without both of those qualities I'm simply not going to give anything in return. Call me selfish, but what is the point of doing something or someone I have no interest in? That seems to occur more often than I like with men so I try to hold women to a higher standard.
Many swinger women classify themselves as bisexual as if it's a badge of honor, as though they think it means they are sexually evolved. Yet men seem to hide their attraction to other men like it's a dirty secret. Sadly this double standard won't change anytime soon.
I asked some of my favorite followers what attracted them to the opposite sex. Both men and women responded, some more forthcoming than others, but as expected the responses were primarily from the female perspective.
My wife, is a perfect example of the former Marine, ex-wife, mother of four, swinger. She is attracted to Caucasian women with smallish breasts, prefers a shaved pussy and a well-toned body. This is in contrast to her own D+ cup breasts, a nicely trimmed bush and a post-child, pre-menopausal body. This woman, however attractive, can be an instant turn off if she cannot complete a sentence, uses "LIKE" more than three times in a sentence and laughs uncontrollably at her own ignorance.
For myself (the male half), I am attracted to a man that is not round, minimal chest hair, and an average cock. I am a "don't cum in my mouth" bisexual; but everything else -- giving and receiving oral, giving and receiving penetration is all good. Again, if the man is an idiot, moron or other non-common sense holding person; it is easy to walk away.
The majority of respondents were far less descriptive.
What my female readers looked for in other women:
Ass, boobs, body, pretty eyes, hair (big one for me), and congenial nature.
This seems to make perfect sense whether you are male or female.
Boobs, hair, pretty eyes, a beautiful smile, and lovely hands.
I was with you until the lovely hand part... is that strange or is it just me?
Not necessary in my book. Sometimes a little shyness is enticing.
It starts with the hair, I don't like burnt locks, eyes, overall presentation, CLEAN, smile :).
Clean all over is important!
It's the skin, the hair and the bodies. The way that women understand each other, the way they kiss. Women are hot. The end.
Intelligence, humor and nice buns.
I don't care if you have a sense of humor. No talking necessary.
What one male readers finds attractive in other men:
Slightly feminine, well groomed, shaved below the belt, circumcised, bigger than 6 inches, employed, able to hold a clever conversation.
I agree with all of those traits even the slightly feminine characteristic on occasion.
My tastes change from person to person. It would be impossible to exactly describe my type. In the end my type is male, but I'm an open minded person so nothing is out of the realm of possibilities.