Gratuitously yours: Tips on tipping and how to score a table at a hot new spot

  • Ask if they have any tables set aside for walk-ins. Indeed, even super-popular spots have at least a couple tables set aside for folks who happen in. You can circumvent most reservations systems by simply showing up about an hour early on any given night and being first in line for one of those tables.


  • Avoid calling from a hotel phone. A glance at caller I.D. tells the restaurant that you’re both unlikely to visit more than once and that, like many hotel guests, you’re more likely to be a no-show.


  • If you’re a regular at any prominent restaurant — whether it’s across town or around the globe — ask if they’ll call another eatery on your behalf. Restaurants, as in any industry, trade favors. If, for example, you’re a regular at the French Laundry, and you’re planning a trip to France, you’d be nuts not to ask someone there make your reservations at three-star restaurants in France.



Once that coveted table is secured and the meal is finished, the last thing to be considered when dining out is tipping. There are plenty of reasons to tip your server well. Besides being the right thing to do, here are some others to consider:



  • Rather than being regarded as a mini-miscreant, your toddler will get the VIP treatment — breakables will be deftly placed out of little hands’ reach; crayons and paper will appear as if by magic; half orders of the tot’s favorite off-menu pasta concoction will arrive post haste. Especially big tips may even inspire your server to offer to cut your steak so you can eat one-handed as you cradle a snoozing baby.


  • When you tell the server you’ve got a “time situation” — say, need to catch a movie opening or a flight — you can relax knowing you will.


  • They’ll forgive you if your boss joining you for a meal is a douchebag. Come to think of it, they may even forgive you for being a douchebag.


  • When you whisper that tonight is a special occasion — your anniversary or a dinner date’s birthday — you’ll receive much more than a chilly “Congratulations.”


  • Next time you ask about one of the specials, they’ll not only tell you what they really think of it — they’ll likely bring you taste.



Image: LeoLondon via Flickr.

Plenty of ink — and pixels — are spent recommending restaurants. Less talked about, but equally important, are knowing how to score a table and why not to be a cheapskate tipper.

Indeed, scoring a table at a hot new restaurant can be maddening. While this might not be as much of a challenge in Tampa Bay or Sarasota as, say, New York or Miami, knowing how to navigate the politics of getting a table is a fine skill to have.

Here’s what really works:

  • The best times to call about making reservations are on the day you want to dine, at the moment the reservation phone lines open and at 1 p.m. What’s so special about 1 o’clock? That’s when most restaurants make available all the tables they’ve held back in case regular customers and other VIPs call to reserve them.
  • If no tables are available the day you’d like to dine, ask if you can be added to a wait list. Also, make it known how flexible you are about times. If you’re a stickler for 8:30 p.m. and a 9 p.m. opens up, they may skip to the next name on the list. And give a phone number where they can actually reach you, such as your cell. Better yet, assure them that even if they get voice mail you’ll definitely want the spot.

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