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Monday, October 12, 2009

Dreams

Dreaming of cold-hearted sex

Posted by Dream Momma on Mon, Oct 12, 2009 at 11:30 AM

“ Dream Momma, I dreamt I got a phone call from an old boyfriend (my first if ya know what I mean) from 27 years ago. The

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phone call went something like this - he says " sorry. I. have not called. in.. a while....somebody......hurt me." long pauses in the phone conversations and the "hurt me" was evil & drawn out.....I had fear. when I woke up my hand was in a position to have held a cell phone and it was locked like that for awhile. the weird thing is I was young - I never loved the guy & he never loved me (we just had sex for several months), so it was no great significance or loss when it was over. I cannot believe my subconscious would send me info from a casual affair when I have two men in my life (long term love relationships) that are more prominent & more recent. Even in my dream I was confused as to why this guy would be calling me. REally it was nothing special in real life.” (sic)

Dream Momma just loves those unconscious typos (“REally”).  Talk about denial of a tremendously significant passage in a young woman’s life. REALLY! So what’s up with that?

Now, this is going to be hard to read but Dream Momma wouldn’t hurt you unless it was for your ultimate good (sort of like a vaccine shot).  You are alone and single because you are disassociated from your True Self (your feelings). Sex means nothing to you, your long-term relationships fizzle out, you’re 40ish, (a milestone age) and you still don’t get it (Life).

Thank God for dreams. Thank God for your unconscious telling you to wake up and get real by bringing you the memory of your first sexual awakening (Oops, I forgot: You didn’t awaken, “we just had sex”). That coldness is what your fear is about.

Dream Momma knows your heart is cold. She knows something happened to you as a child that froze it. She also knows the healthy part of you, lurking in your unconscious and gifting you this dream, wants you to begin the healing process.  You’ve already started by sending me the dream, so you are on your way. The next step is to begin the Soul search for your feelings by finding a damn good therapist to guide you, so the second half of your life isn’t an emotional wasteland too. You can do it. You’ve already started.

Dream Momma

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