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Friday, October 9, 2009

Dreams

Dream-cheating while pregnant

Posted by Dream Momma on Fri, Oct 9, 2009 at 11:30 AM

“Dream Momma, I dreamed I was pregnant (which in real life I am) and that my husbands best friend entered my roo

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m and started kissing my neck and I was going along with it. He then took off my clothes and his own clothes and showed me his big penis. I then told him to put on a condom because in my dream I was still aware I was pregnant. So we had sex (missionary style), which is not recommended to do while pregnant, but in my dream I let him because he wasn't putting any pressure on my stomach like in real life my husband does. So while we were having sex, all I was thinking about was how I had just took my revenge that I was plotting against my husband and put it to action. We then finished and even though I did it to get back at my husband I begged him not to tell him. Still in my dream but later on that day we were all at the house and my husbands best friend was also there, but I felt so guilty. Even though I felt guilty I still wanted to do it again.” (sic)

Yikes, this is not good. Dream Momma wants to know why the hell you ever agreed to get pregnant? Or did you?

It’s also  not clear to me who you hate more: your husband or your unborn baby. This is very dangerous territory, indeed. It’s even more dangerous because you are a very angry and very sexual woman (“I feel guilty I still wanted to do it again-[exact revenge or have sex?]).

Here’s advice for everyone else: If you are not ready to settle down; if you haven’t sewn your romantic oats; if you still yearn for adventure, don't get married and certainly don't get pregnant. Situations like this (resenting being tied down) happen because, like the dreamer, many young women don’t know what they want. In addition to parental and community pressure to settle down, there is an internal pressure -- especially if a young woman is sexually active -- to become “an honest woman,” whatever that means in today’s world. But, as we all know, old cultural beliefs die hard: just ask Fatima Rifqa Bary, the recent runaway girl who feared her father’s wrath.

So what to do? I truly can’t answer that. What I can say with complete certainty is what you must not do. You must not take your anger out on your child. You will be tempted (especially if the baby resembles your husband), I understand, but don’t act. You must not act. Instead, you tell yourself every day that your perfect little being is unique and will go out into the world some day carrying your banner. Dream Momma also has homework for you. You should read Gibran’s The Prophet, until you have the section " Children” memorized. Please, for the sake of your wild heart and your child’s future, do this.

Dream Momma

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