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Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Relationships & Dating / Sex and Love

30 and horny: the high point of the female sex drive

Posted by Rebecca Ammon on Wed, Jul 1, 2009 at 10:27 PM

What does it mean to be a 30 something female at her sexual peak? This is my situation.

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I have been on a continuous hormonal roller coaster during this decade of my life (which is still not quite complete I might add). This ride has been full of sexual peaks and valleys. I believe the onset of my swinger life began on one of those highs. I felt good about myself, wanted more sex, and craved the experience others; thus a swinger. As of late, I have revisited an up swing in the sex drive. I think about sex constantly. I feel aroused continually. This could be in part because of my age/hormonal change and in part because of that tiny barbell ever so gently placed through my hood, just above the clitoris (a highly recommended body modification). The bead on the end of this barbell quite frequently rubs my clit and results in the feeling that I am an 18 year old boy in heat. How do you guys stand this? I like sex, this has not changed, but my need for sex has changed. Some days are worse than others - not meaning that sex arousal is ever a bad thing but normally I want it some days and others sleep seems like a good idea. Who is responsible for this malicious trick? Men hit their peek in the late teens to early 20s. At that time most men are young and free and haven't yet lived the whole hearted responsibility of parenthood. So here we women are; 30 something, career, children, and horny.

The swinger lifestyle does help with this common affliction we women share, but not everyone is in a position or have the desire to live this type of lifestyle. Also, the lifestyle doesn't necessarily combat all the needs or desire for sex, but does explain the majority of swingers in this age range. Swinging is only a small part of my life and doesn't always take place weekly or even monthly. How does this help my need for sex on a daily basis? My husband is not complaining about my new found sexual enthusiasm, but the look of exhaustion on his face after another romp in the sack makes me feel slightly guilty...but not too much. I have to wonder how other women fair during this crazy time of life. Do these feelings bring about the need to seek gratification in other ways or from other people?

much. I have to wonder how other women fair during this crazy time of life. Do these feelings bring about the need to seek gratification in other ways or from other people?

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>_< My sex drive is bad enough in my 20s. A friend is convinced I will burn out any partner(s) I have once I hit my 30s.

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Posted by amjennih@gmail.com on July 2, 2009 at 8:54 AM

I don't think you need to worry at all...we all know there are plenty of willing men in the world!

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Posted by Rebecca A on July 2, 2009 at 9:53 AM

I've recently felt these desires popping up more and more. I feel the need to satisfy myself, but often deny it. I'd never considered the swinger lifestyle. How can I discreetly get more details?

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Posted by Horny in Tampa on July 2, 2009 at 10:42 AM

My sex drive has been climbing since I started at 18. I don't want to hit my peak anytime soon. I'm having too much fun.

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Posted by Ginger Ale on July 2, 2009 at 10:44 AM

How do you guys stand this? ==================================== At the risk of giving too much information, we masturbate. A lot. It helps for a few hours, but nothing can replace actual physical contact with someone you care about. This article was interesting to read, though. It seems like the author finally realized what life is like for every male above the age of 13. I'm 29, and my sex drive is as high now as it was in high school, if not higher.

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Posted by Scott A on July 2, 2009 at 10:43 PM

Can't speak for everyone, Scott. I know I masturbate. TCB, one way or another.

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Posted by Angela on July 5, 2009 at 6:03 PM
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